Here’s a scene that takes place every day in every city.
A man walks down the street, minding his own business, and then from a distance, he sees an attractive woman or a woman with a seductive gait. As they approach each other, he checks her from head to toe (or at least head to waist), waiting for the fleeting moment when they will come face to face. As she passes by, she gives him a clear view of her ass as she walks by.
The man doesn’t have to look – but most of the time he does. Why is that? Is it instinctive? Or a habit? Is it wilful lust? Or just male curiosity?
The answers to these questions may differ among men, but we can all agree on one thing: there’s just something about a nice ass that we find very sexy. When I say ‘nice’ I am allowing variations in the definition here.
Some men like small, perky asses. Some like voluptuous, heart-shaped butts. Some guys like firm, athletic butts. Some men like petite, model-like asses. Others like butts that are round but not intrusive. Many like curvaceous butts that are in proportion to a woman’s figure.
There are some who don’t care at all about butts (they are in the minority). Then there are those on the other end of the spectrum who like big, even gigantic butts.
Speaking of fat butts, they tend to create a more pear-shaped body, which scientists say makes better use of insulin, which can protect against type 2 diabetes and heart disease. In addition, it is still believed that extra “padding” facilitates pregnancy.
Bigger buttocks are also big news in Hollywood and for plastic surgeons.
Butt implants (also known as Brazilian Butt Lifts) have proven to be effective in improving the size and shape of butts. Women who are not satisfied with the size of their buttocks benefit from more volume. Patients who feel that their buttocks are under-shaped may have a more prominent, sensual rear.
Butt pull is a popular and sexual phenomenon.
Yes, men feel there is a strong correlation between a woman’s ass and her sexual prowess. Many women don’t know, it’s not just the size or shape of the ass that piques our interest, it’s the presentation of the ass that men find attractive. We call it ‘framing’. Just like you do with a photo.
When properly framed in the right piece of clothing, an ass is just as beautiful as a photograph. If it is exceptional, it is more of an exotic painting. It doesn’t matter what kind of ass a woman has, it can – like any photo – be enhanced with good framing. Strings are an example of this effect.
Careful selection of the wardrobe and the right fit on a woman’s buttocks is essential.
Some butts look great in tight jeans. Some look better in dresses. Some look better in skirts. A woman’s ass should never have the appearance of sagging in clothes. Never.
Equally exciting for men is the movement of the ass. Why do you think strippers are so popular? Ask any man who frequents such establishments, and he will tell you that the girls who move the best get the most tips.
This movement is not limited to lap dances and poles. The movement of the buttocks is a natural beauty that reveals a wealth of information about a woman such as her self-confidence, sexual confidence, and sexual vitality. It is called a ‘foreign language’. Men become more fluid with it as their sexual experiences increase.
Some butts have too much movement, which is like a jelly plate on a roller coaster. Some butts move awkwardly. Some butts move gracefully. Some are captivating. Those are the ones that beckon men, practically bewitching them; inspiring fantasies and visions of nudity. Why?
Because, unlike breasts that are really for nursing babies, nice asses are seen by men as the key to a treasure chest full of fun. Some men swear that a nice ass reveals a woman’s anatomical fit, sexual responsiveness, amount of past sexual activity, frequency of exercise, and ability to reach orgasm. It is a very functional body part that reveals a lot of information.
While men love the aesthetic value of a nice ass and the intrigue and promise it holds, women, from an anthropological perspective, have a more viable reason to seek out and appreciate nice ass on men.
Turns out a man’s strong, muscular ass can be seen as an indication of his “propulsive” power. It correlates with his ability to insert himself deep into the vagina, closer to the cervix, to ejaculate his sperm, increasing the chances of reproduction.
Beautiful asses aren’t just there to look at; they have a function for both men and women.
Gian Fiero is a teacher, speaker, and consultant specializing in business development, career planning, and personal growth.